Galatians
6:1-5 “Brothers and
sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should
restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be
tempted. Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the
law of Christ. If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they
deceive themselves. Each one should test their own actions. Then they can
take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone
else, for each one should carry their own load.”
This
last Sunday, Pastor Kyle continued in his “Three Questions to Improve”. He
stated that Coaches do not feel restraints, but develop personal accountability
in individuals, where there are reward incentives and penalty incentives are
tools because rewarded behavior gets repeated and penalized behavior is
detoured. We must remember that in our lives, more than the right action, God
wants the right attitude and heart. My old pastor Dave Rader described this as
the progression from parent/coach-led, to self-led, to God-led in our
accountability
Proverbs
27:17 “As iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens the countenance
of his friend.”
Kyle gave us some thoughts about
accountability partners and groups in our lives. First, they only work if we
are honest. .
In our dealings with others, are we honest with them? Do we have any hidden
things due to fear? It is natural to hide issue that can hurt us if revealed. If
you know that you are going to be punished by revealing something about you, we
tend to keep that quiet. But, communities are designed to build up; not penalize.
To obtain community unity we need to bring our problems into the light. Second,
they work best when they’re as much about relationships as they are rules.
There is a natural safety net of love, called relationship, which God has set
up for society, when rules are broken. Know that God cannot love you any less.
People are going to fall short in their Christian walk and godly expectations
due to the sin nature in their lives. The church family and body of believers
has that safety net in Christ. Show compassion and listen.
Ecclesiastes
4:9-12
“Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their
labor. For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to
him who is alone when he falls, for he has no one to help
him up. Again, if two lie down together, they will keep warm; but how can one
be warm alone? Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand
him. And a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”
Third,
they work best when they are across the same gender. Men and women are wired different
and relate better is accountability man to man and woman to woman. Fourth, they
work best when we share first. When openly sharing, somebody has to “break the
ice” and start. We all need to embrace the offering of silence, so we do not
need to fill every gap with words. Sometimes, silence is golden … let’s all get
rich. Put nobody “on the spot” ... no fear and no rejection. When conversation
happens organically, it works best. The important things is spend time
together.
Psalm
2:11 “Serve the Lord with
fear and celebrate his rule with trembling.”
The
second question that we need to ask ourselves in order to improve is: “Would my
next decision fly with the boss … aka God? What would God say? Our Almighty
Creator is the best and scariest boss that we shall ever have. Our honest
relationship with our Maker is freeing to the heart and brings peace to the
soul. Most things that we do and the associated issues are between you and God.
The infinite all-knowing, all-seeing, all-powerful Creator of heaven and earth
cannot be compared to anything that we know or can possibly comprehend with our
finite minds. But, our answers are in the Bible, the living Word of God. In His
holiness, perfection and sovereignty, He is Lord and helps keep us personally
accountable.
Philippians
2:12-13 “Therefore, my dear
friends, as you have always obeyed—not only in my presence, but now much more
in my absence—continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, for
it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good
purpose.”
A
holy reverential fear is a good thing in our Christian walk with the Lord. Always remember that Jesus
Christ is our safety net. Nobody can snatch us out of His hand.
In
Christ, Brian
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