Monday, October 14, 2013

The Green Eyed Monster


Proverbs 27:4 “Anger is cruel and fury overwhelming, but who can stand before jealousy?”

Our Friday night small group Bible study that meets at our house continues is the topical series, “Conquering Destructive Temptations and Distractions with the green-eyed monster of “ jealousy”. We've all heard the term “green-eyed monster”, but do you know where it originated? O, beware, my lord, of jealousy; It is the green-eyed monster, which doth mock the meat it feeds on. That cuckold lives in bliss, who, certain of his fate, loves not his wronger: But O, what damnèd minutes tells he o'er who dotes, yet doubts, suspects, yet strongly loves! Shakespeare’s Othello Act 3, scene 3, 165–171Choosing to be satisfied with what God gives us and where He’s placed us isn't always as easy as it sounds.

Romans 13:13-14 “Let us behave decently, as in the daytime, not in carousing and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and debauchery, not in dissension and jealousy. Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the flesh.

Jealousy is defined as the demand for exclusive affection or attention characterized by anxiety, envy, distrust and suspicion. Signs of envy include feeling discontent over the success of another and taking delight in another person’s failures. As believers, how can we resist the temptation to jealousy or defeat envy when it creeps into our thoughts? By realizing your own worth in God’s eyes, and appreciate others. Learning to let go of jealous feelings is a process of looking at our lives from God’s perspective. God has chosen us and we are His workmanship, saved by His grace through faith. He loves each of us with an everlasting love and has a plan for our live. Our role is to be patient and wait for God, believing that He is working out His purpose in our lives for our ultimate good and His glory, then the green-eyed monster will lose its power.

Titus 3:3-5 “At one time we too were foolish, disobedient, deceived and enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures. We lived in malice and envy, being hated and hating one another. But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit.


In Christ, Brian

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